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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For what it's worth, he can be served internationally.  I know because I served my ex that way.[/quote]

Thanks. I'm trying to keep the expense and the drama to a minimum....sort of the "no big deal" approach posters above have suggested. My anxiety comes from the fact that he and I seem to get along fine...until the moment he's asked to do something he doesn't want to do. It's been so disappointing that time, shared memories with DD, and peace-making gestures on my part become moot if we disagree. [/quote]

I understand.  I think it's easy to fall into the trap of this idea of peaceful compare ting and fostering a relationship which leads to you just spinning your wheels trying to make something from nothing. I turned the tables on my ex, ended all communication and we're all much happier. Haven't heard a peep from him since. He didn't care, doesn't care and it's a huge weight lifted to no longer feel responsible for his behavior.  It's not a result of you.[/quote]

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