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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you tell them the truth if they are the result of rape or incest? [/quote]i am one of the adoptive moms who tells her kids the truth, which is we don't know why. If that were the truth, I would tell them eventually. Im really surprised at you guys who think it's better to make up a sweet story. They grow up, you know, and they can find out. I would love it if my kids find their birth families one day and it turned out beautiffully with full acceptance from them. But I know for a fact that isn't always the case. I tell them what I know - they needed a family and we wanted a baby and fate put us together. We all had to go through rough times and loss to get here. I can't write their story before we met, so I don't know about their birth parents. What I do know is that I love them more than anything in this world. [/quote] +100[/quote]
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