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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - my other option is to continue to stay away and only see them 2-3 times a year even though they are local.  I just don't want my husband to resent me one day for always doing more with my family and not his.  Not that he ever initiates doing stuff with them.

I don't think it is healthy for me to think about this stuff all the time or dread each time I have to see them.  I feel a sense of loss for us and kids but I can't force it.  At least if I speak up about it this one time, I'm hoping for it help me release the tension/angst about it all.[/quote]

I think you need to just focus on staying in your own house and developing your own traditions with the kids during the holidays.

If they are local then you have plenty of other times that you can get together.  It's not like you even have to stay overnight with them.  Just pop by with a lasagna, french bread and a salad and have dinner together some night.  If someone says something annoying so what.  You know that you can leave soon.

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