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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would keep her on the card, especially because there are still other children in the house and the blended family issue.  I would never want her to feel left out.[/quote]

Yes, this. But I would be conscious of her independence and ask her.

OP, let us know what she says.[/quote]

Yes, but don't ask her in a way that makes it seem like you thinks she should come off the card.  That would have the same effect.[/quote]

Thank you, everyone.  I mailed them this week, including one to her so that she can see it.  When we next talk to her I'll bring it up asking if it bugs her that she's still on it.  "I know you're a grown-up, but we still feel like you're one of 'the kids' and put your name on our family Christmas card.  Does it bother you that we put your name on the card still, or would you rather next year that we not?"  Will report back after we talk![/quote]

I think that's a perfect way to handle it, OP![/quote]

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