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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That sounds like victim blaming to me. The person who had the affair created the problem. They get the blame.[/quote] What drove him/her to have an affair?[/quote] If it bad enough to for you to seek others, it is bad enough to get a divorce first. [/quote] [b]And if it is bad enough to divorce first, aren't both parties to blame?[/b][/quote] With this logic, a divorce that happens pre-affair would be both parties' fault, but a divorce that happened post-affair would be the cheating spouse's fault.[/quote] Correct. Having an affair is a violation of the sanctity of marriage. The minute you take the steps to actually have the affair, you own the consequences. [/quote]
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