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Reply to "Is it Fair to Say That Both Parties Are to Blame in the Demise of a Marriage? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually disagree vehemently with this trope - and I'm in a fairly happy marriage. But many break-ups I've observed, there is one partner in the "wrong" - or at least who believes their needs outshadow those of his/her partner and family. Sure both partners may be less than perfect and[b] act selfishly[/b], but so often one partner is "blamed" for simply not reacting to or handling the hurtful actions of another "properly."[/quote] Right, because they are both acting selfishly, they both bear some responsibility for the marriage's demise. Only the cheater bears responsibility for the cheating. But most of the time the cheated-upon took part in getting marriage to the point where the cheater decided to cheat. "Most of the time" excludes true sociopaths.[/quote]
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