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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That sounds like victim blaming to me. The person who had the affair created the problem. They get the blame.[/quote] What drove him/her to have an affair?[/quote] Nope. Having an affair is a behavior choice. Plenty of people in shitty marriages make different choices. Your marriage can be shitty in ways that both spouses contribute to before the affair, but afterward, there are few things that would trump "affair" in the list of ways a marriage was wrecked. The person who had the affair is 100% responsible for that behavior. It doesn't matter if your spouse refuses sex forever. Like PP said, if it's bad enough to cheat, it's bad enough to divorce first.[/quote]
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