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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel a little  terrible for thinking this way, but it's the truth.
It's just when I see my  colleagues with their spouses, my husband seems so  basic and unsophisticated. He's embarrassing.
He's a terrible dresser with a bad haircut. I've given up on the hair, but  I try to help him put, but even that doesn't help. Tonight I picked out a nice outfit for him to wear to dinner with our friends. What does he do? He some how gets it dirty , and comes back down dressed in a blue shirt and  maroon pants.  Of course we're running late so there's no time for him to change.
At dinner he orders way too much food, and gets a doggy bag. He doesn't need the extra food he's already too think around the middle. I seriously don't know how he has middle age  pudge as he works out and is only 32.
If that wasn't enough I was cringing as he participated in the conversation. He didn't say anything wrong in particular, he was just a little to eager to participate and was stumbling and stuttering over his words, and repeated himself.
I try to focus on his good qualities. He has a steady job and career that he loves, and makes a decent income, but even that is a downside as he could be further than where he is if he were just a little more ambitious.
No, I'm not contemplating an affair,[b] and  I want a divorce.[/b]
[i]I do wonder what it would be like to have a husband that was more impressive[/i].[/quote]

You want a divorce b/c your husband is unimpressive.

OP, do you realize how shallow you are?  Even if the divorce part is a typo (Freudian slip), you are still extremely shallow.  You should be ashamed of yourself.[/quote]

That was a typo.  I don't want a divorce.  Maybe I'm shallow, but it's how I feel.[/quote]

OK, allow me to be blunt:

Your feelings are completely invalid. You are cunt for having them, much less expressing them.

I'm sorry if you thought you'd get sympathy by posting this on DCUM. Maybe you confused this with a being a safe place where it was OK to vent. It's not.

You suck. You are a rancid cunt.

[b]Do the man a favor and leave him.[/quote][/b]

I doubt he could do better, and I don't want to leave him.[/quote]

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