Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Anyone else not want to spend future holidays with spouse?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] What exactly does he do that bothers you so much? His behavior does not reflect on you. You certainly do not need to appease him! If there truly was something to appease, as in your family was insulting him, you should leave with him and not spend Thanksgiving with your family, right? So let him be grumpy, sit elsewhere and enjoy yourself. If he really makes himself a nuisance for no reason, he's not really good husband material and you probably need a serious talk and counseling. [/quote] So agree. If your family is being friendly and he's still being withdrawn and grumpy, then you ignore him. Tell your family you don't know what's going on with him. Stop taking responsibility for his bad behavior. If he can't articulate his issues, then that's his problem.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics