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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in your same position, except I'm the wife. I'm also not particularly bummed, in that my DH's weight doesn't make me want him any less or affect our sex life.
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Well, that's very nice for you.  Unfortunately, I am not attracted to her any longer.   The fat is just too much.  I wish it didn't make any difference to me.  I do still love her, very much, but I am not attracted.

[quote=Anonymous]If his weight started affecting my attraction to him, I would discuss that with him in a non-judgmental way.[/quote]

How would you go about that?  I would really be interested in getting some good ideas for bringing this up in a way which is not "judgmental" or mean. I can't for the life of me figure out how to tell someone "I'm not attracted to you anymore" not coming off like a kind of hurtful rejection.

[quote=Anonymous]If his weight started affecting my love for him, I would see a therapist for myself, because that's fucked up.[/quote]

Oh, no, not judgemental at all![/quote]

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