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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you sound controlling and very insecure.

The poor guy -- did you make him divulge who he has slept with to you?   I have been married 15years and have no clue (not a one!) who my DH's exes were/are - so I have no clue if he is current FB with them.  Even if there were 50 and he was FB friends with all 50--- I would not care.  Not a single care.  I am not on FB because I truly am a private person, so I don't have a clue what his social media presence is.

But what I do know is how strong our marriage is.  And how great a husband and father he is.

Grow up, OP.  Have some self-esteem.  If he really loves you it doesn't matter what's on FB.  It definitely should not matter to you.

Good luck.  Or, you will find yourself scaring this guy away. [/quote]

No, I didn't make him divulge. He brought it up at first. He asked something about my number, or my exes. I didn't volunteer my number, and said (and have said repeatedly since) that I don't want to know his. But, from conversations when we've been out at public events and him seeing someone he's been with, I've gathered that it is quite high. He asked if a friend who commented on a FB post of mine was an ex. I said, no, I'm friends with very few exes/people I've slept with on FB. He then said, wow, that's not the case for me, grabbed his phone, went down his friends list through the 'A's and volunteered that there were 5.

It's obvious I'm coming across as jealous or insecure on here, and I'm genuinely not, though I think convincing you of that is a lost cause at this point. I know he had a promiscuous phase. I understand why. I accept it. I'm just questioning if the fact that he feels the need to have digital remembrances of it means that he isn't ready to be in a serious relationship. [/quote]

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