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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]... I'm a pretty shy person around people I don't know. It takes me a while to warm up and not feel awkward around people. People interpret my resulting aloofness as me being stuck-up or bitchy or whatever. My sister has run into the same problem and been told the same thing. If there's one thing this taught me it's that first impressions really aren't the best thing on which to base your feelings about a person. Unfortunately, I think a lot of people do this. ...... I will say though that anyone who thinks people hate them because they are beautiful, smart, talented, etc. is probably really conceited and full of themselves, and that's why people don't like them. There's a difference between confident and cocky, and being cocky definitely doesn't make people like a person.[/quote]

I sort of agree with this.  My college roommate was stunning.  Tall, incredible figure, porcelein skin, black hair/eyes - when she walked into a room, every eye turned her way.  She, too, was somewhat shy but she kept her head up instead of looking all meek and she had fantastic posture (she was also a dancer).  Most men made fools of themselves falling over her and she was very uncomfortable with that kind of attention.  I can't tell you how many men were extra-friendly with me hoping that I would give them an in with her.  Many women never gave her a chance because their initial impression of her was haughty bitch.  She's not at all.  In fact, although she and I are pretty much physical opposites, we're very much alike personality wise, except I'm more comfortable in unfamiliar groups.

I know, at first meeting, my college roommate (still stunning at age 44) was intensely disliked by other women and often didn't get a second chance to change that initial impression.  [/quote]

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