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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I hate to say this but you're not going to get pregnant if you're having sex once a week. It's very very unlikely. DH doesn't have a high drive but he knew what we had to do and got on board for every other day, sometimes 2 days in a row. Sometimes it took a little imagination and tricks to get him up and more often than not I didn't have an orgasm, but we did it cause we knew we had to. Business sex sucks but it is what it is! Especially after trying for 8 months! 
If he truly can't perform, can he take Viagra or something? [/quote]\

+1. Once a week just isn't enough. I would do every other day during the fertile method. Sometimes when we just couldn't physically have sex again (it's tiring!), DH would masturbate to the point of climax and then finish inside me. That worked very well! [/quote]

I wish.  Problem is my husband can easily send me to a doctor, jerk off and hope to get me pregnant.  He resents having to have sex for procreation. He says he wants to have sex for pleasure only.  [/quote]

I'm sorry OP but your husband sounds rather selfish. Does he have any idea what IVF entails? Money aside, it's serious meds and procedures for you. I can't believe he's okay with spending thousands of dollars and having you go through such hormonal crap for something that might be accomplished naturally. If he is this selfish in other areas too I would seriously reconsider having children. I know that sounds extreme but if he is this unwilling to put in the effort to conceive the kids, what kind of effort will he put in once they're here?

On a more practical note, if he's willing to jerk off but not have sex with you, how about trying the turkey baster method at opportune times?

- PP from above who has sex plenty of times for TTC purposes when not in the mood, and whose husband does the same![/quote]

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