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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I am a white American so I don't share your cultural background. And perhaps my marriage isn't what you are anticipating either, but to me the entire foundation of marriage is trust. I trust that my DH will be loyal and faithful to me even though I am, like all people, flawed. (And vice versa). I'm not sure how you can build a solid life with someone while being afraid they might see your flaws, that they might find out you are human.

In my mind, he would have to be a pretty terrible DH to react terribly to news that you [b]dated 3 boys[/b] in your past.[/quote]

I am guess this is more than just "dating".  OP's DH likely thinks he married a virgin.  [/quote]

[b]I was a virgin[/b] when I got married. But I am 100% sure he won't believe me[/quote]

But you stated that having a boyfriend (intercourse irrelevant?) in your culture means that you are not a "virgin".  Agree with the other posters that there is no sense worrying about it now, but if you really think that he may find out its best to just  tell him about your past.  Hopefully he is more enlighten - only you can know how he will react.  Good luck![/quote]

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