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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here, I don't think the age of my kids is relevant. The question basically is, "what do you do if you think someone is going to give your kid a gift that goes against your values and that you have expressly said you don't want your kid having?"

Like if someone gave a Mormon teenager a very revealing dress or something.

I mean, what do you do? Do you have to accept every gift? [/quote]

It's relevant because a lot of people will think your stance on zero ipad use despite having a kid old enough to be able to type something on a computer to be ridiculous.  You know that, or you wouldn't be so worried about the conversation steering that way.

That said, your mother knows your stance on the ipad, so your options are to (a) ask her what she got him before he opens it or (b) let him open it and when he does, say, "Son, i'm sorry, we don't allow ipads in our house and Grandma knows that.  She'll return it and get something else."  Yes, it will be incredibly awkward.  But if, to you use your example, I found revealing clothing to be inappropriate for my child, I would have no problem doing option B.  You have to say no to your kids all the time.  You'll look like the bad guy in front of your kid, but it won't be the first time.  [/quote]

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