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[quote=Anonymous]The comment about a potentially bi or gay man in the school system?  :roll: and  :evil:  Seriously.

At the end of the day, this is a situation about a woman who is in a serious long-term relationship with someone and she has discovered that, at the very least, he "may" be seeking contact with others. It could just be curiosity, but if you ask me, downloading an app on your phone and then not deleting it after you've checked it out, is an indication of some level of continued interest. Whether gay, bi or straight, I'd be really hurt if my significant other was shopping around for someone else--even if he hadn't gone through with anything yet. For me, it would be a deal-breaker. And sadly, since most of the human race will lie when faced with such things, I'm guessing he's not going to tell you the truth if confronted. You may never know whether he had yet to initiate with someone else. Compound that with the very strong indication that he's interested in something sexually that you just can't provide him with and... yeah. I'm guessing he won't be honest with you. And he'll just get better at hiding it so that you don't catch him again.

I'm sorry. I really think you should walk away from this. I do think you should have a conversation with him about it. Your relationship deserves it. But I'd be very wary of falling for any of the lying he's bound to engage in.  Of course, I say all that from my own perspective--I'm into only monogamous relationships. If you are open to something more complex, then don't walk away but even then, you need to get to a point where you can trust that he will be honest with you. Something that he isn't doing, right now.

Sorry. This sucks.[/quote]

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