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[quote=Anonymous]Wait a minute. There is more than infertility going on here. Given this new information you received, you seem to no longer want a second child. Maybe you never did. If someone was posting here that she had changed her mind and no longer wanted a second child without giving a reason, we would all be supporting and s/he-who-wants-fewer-kids-wins-ing her. You FIRST need to examine whether or not you want another kid. IF you do, you need to examine whether you are comfortable doing that with your own eggs or not, and then you and DH need to talk about that. He can not make you go through IVF, and doing it for him is a bad reason. If you are up for adoption or donor eggs, that seems a reasonable way to give him his wish of two kids; if he's not up for that OR for staying at 1, that's pretty unfair to you. If you don't want the next kid, that's something you need to allow yourself to feel, even if it wasn't the plan. [/quote]
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