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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, do you think you are "stuck" in the anger part of grief over your father, and are redirecting that anger? I am not going to judge you, because feelings are irrational sometimes. This hit home for you and that's probably where the fury comes in. [/quote] This. Fury and questioning motives are emotionally driven responses OP - they aren't rational. You are grieving deeply. Just try to think about how you would respond differently if more time (much more) had passed since losing your dad, or if your brother had met this woman before he died, or if you had met her before she was diagnosed, or...... Also, don't assume that your brother or mother is grieving exactly as you are. We are all highly individual in how we experience and survive loss. It can be very hard to understand anyone else's reactions in these times. My condolences on losing your Dad, and the freshness of that pain still for you.[/quote]
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