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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom is dying and it is a matter of weeks.  My aunts have helped me with the readings and songs for the funeral mass, but I have never planned a vigil so have some questions. I am doing this from across the country which makes it difficult.  My dads only request is that it is not depressing but a celebration of her life.   For instance, I love the hymn Precious Lord, Take my Hand but I do not k ow if that is appropriate to sing at a vigil. Also, do we do a rosary in addition to the vigil service or is that done in place of ? I have seen that a lay person can lead if they know the order of service? What other things are usually included? Apologies if my post seems scattered, I am kind of a mess emotionally. [/quote]

I don't think I understand what you mean by a vigil.  A wake/viewing?  Will it be in a funeral home or in church before the funeral.  I assume the funeral will be a Mass.  In that case the priest or a parish secretary will walk you through the whole thing.  They can provide musicians and selections for songs and readings for you to choose.

As for the wake, the funeral home or church will help with that too.  They will ask you what you envision for the celebration of life (which is often used now) and help you make it happen.  I have seen lots of photo boards at wakes recently and often a notice asking people to wear a special color or something that is meaningful and would bring a spirit to the event.  I have not heard music at a wake, just the funeral Mass.  A rosary or simple prayer service at the wake is common regardless of where it is held.  The priest will lead and often lay people will share prepared memories if desired.

Do not worry about the details and allow others to help you.  The church is well-versed in these and knows how to help make it what you would like.[/quote]

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