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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother would do the same type of thing.  She thinks she is can manipulate people do what she wants and that they are too dumb to understand what she is doing.  It is some odd passive-aggressive control issue.  Proves how she still wants the best for everyone, they can still be friends (even if they weren't really before), she looks like the bigger person....[/quote]

OP here.  I asked her point blank, "Mom, you do understand we are getting divorced, right?  You do understand that other than children' pick up times and their grades, we have nothing to talk about, right?  Then why are you getting us all together in the same room when you know perfectly well that we are NOT getting back together and that the kids are FINE with that?"

She can't give me a response other than "well, I thought it'd be nice for the kids to be with both sets of grandparents during the holidays."  We never did that while we were married, why bother when we are divorced?

Yes, I am done with this marriage, I am trying to move on.  Stop holding on to some weird dream of "things will get better."[/quote]

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