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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Where are you seeing "abusive" in the Op's posts?  The yogurt thing is - annoying and know it all-sh.  The yelling about leaving insurance/registration info on the table at home during a traffic stop - it's actually kind of understandable why he was irritated that his wife had left those important papers at home.[/quote]

Yelling at her because he got busted by the cops is abusive, full stop.  He has nobody to blame but himself for getting pulled over, whether or not she made a mistake leaving insurance and registration on a counter.  The cops almost never write tickets for that stuff unless you have committed some other infraction to get you pulled over in the first place, and even then, only when something is wrong with the registration (which they call in regardless).  He screwed up; he caused the problem; he took the wrong turn and then he engaged in the moving violation. He's angry and unhappy about the encounter with the police for which he is at fault and he's blaming her for leaving papers at home on the counter. This is wildly inappropriate.

Policing the amount of sugar in the yogurt she likes is so over the top I don't know where to begin - if you don't see that as micromanaging, then you've got boundary issues of your own.   Taken one at a time, these incidents are perhaps minor and should be let go, but when they form a pattern of general behavior and interaction, they become abusive and controlling.  [/quote]

Just reading this brought instant tears to my eyes[/quote]

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