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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow.  I'm your husband's age (early 50's) and no way am I that "old".

You sound as though you are talking about a difficult elderly dad.  [/quote]

I'm PP @8:35 and no, it's not "difficult elderly dad" - it's insecure controlling asshole.  He could very easily be her age and pull the same shit.  What you see with these age differentials, is that oftentimes these controlling assholes (and there are plenty of women among them - see the guy in the "My Wife Hates Me" thread") choose inexperienced (younger) partners who don't recognize and call them out on their BS (or their real peers just won't have anything to do with them), and aren't equipped to stand up to it.

I'm an older (mid-40s) guy with a brand new younger DW (mid-30s) and our first child (both of us) ever, and I'm as (or more) youthful than DW.  We also both have learned from our pasts being with abusive|user controlling people to not put up with BS from each other (and neither of us is really insecure and controlling).  [/quote]

Where are you seeing "abusive" in the Op's posts?  The yogurt thing is - annoying and know it all-sh.  The yelling about leaving insurance/registration info on the table at home during a traffic stop - it's actually kind of understandable why he was irritated that his wife had left those important papers at home.

Even the Op points to age as the reason for this guy being irritable.[/quote]

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