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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see why you need to know all these small details? I hate reporting every move I make to DH and I don't expect it in return?

A divorce people? Seriously? Even married people need room to breathe.[/quote]

You have clearly never been married to a liar. I immediately got what OP was talking abut because I've been there. My ex lied about anything and everything- big things like money, little things like buying coffee, everything in between. I too stopped challenging him because he could never admit the lie- he said "I didn't say that" or "you misunderstood me" or "it was a joke." I too stopped believing anything he said. I just smiled and nodded and went and checked out anything important on my own to get the real story. But I lost all trust and respect for him, became physically repulsed by him, and then he financially ruined us with secret spending, so I finally divorced him.

I think you should leave, OP. It is such an incredible feeling to not be living in a shifting world all the time.Although divorcing and visitation with a liar is not easy either, it's a million times better for me and for the kids in the long run too, I think. Just remember that you are not crazy! Start writing a journal just to make your thoughts and reality concrete. Good luck![/quote]

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