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[quote=Anonymous]I recognize this behavior in a former colleague. Lying is too strong a word, and I disagree with PPs, this doesn't set off my cheating radar at all. It is more like procrastination or mild delusion than intentional dishonesty. Or maybe passive aggressive at worst. I am guessing that you or he, or both, are trying to make coffee at home to save money, and he feels a bit guilty about a daily starbucks habit? If so, I believe he is just procrastinating/passive aggressive about it, he is lazy to make coffee or maybe he likes the ritual of the starbucks run, but in some part of his mind, he is making coffee at home. This is his way of telling you that he doesn't want to make coffee at home, he wants to buy it at starbucks on his way in to work. Does that ring true, OP? It's hard to say without knowing him but that's what it sounds like. I really don't see any premeditated dishonesty here which is more common when covering up an affair. [/quote]
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