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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have the same kind of mother. You have to stop defending yourself, stop assessing your life through her eyes, and stop doing anything whatsoever for her approval. Disengage from that sick dynamic of hers. There's nothing wrong with you. You sound like you're doing great. She is the one with issues. It will help you if you try to detach, keep perspective, and talk to her less frequently. It's needlessly upsetting to you, and I can see why your husband thinks it's time to back away. Take a look at this website. http://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/mothers-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder/ It's especially important for you to work on this now, because it affects how you will parent. You will also have to become your own mother to yourself--the kind of supportive, unconditionally loving mother you didn't have. [/quote]
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