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Reply to "My bf is perfect on paper: just have a gut feeling it isn't right"
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[quote=Anonymous]Married 18 years. FYI you marry not just him, but his family. He seems to have acted appropriately by putting you first over his mom etc. However; you need to know that unless he cuts them off, you will be putting up with them forever. And if she's a drunken mess once, she will be again. You need to figure out if he rescues her. Just figure out how they deal with each other. I'm concerned for you because he has kept it so secretive--he may just be trying not to lose you, but it doesn't give you enough data to figure out what's going on. Whatever relationship they have, he will most likely continue. So if he rescues her (e.g. with money) or falls for guilt trips with her, that will continue. You need to figure this out. Same with the rest of his family.[/quote]
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