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Reply to "My bf is perfect on paper: just have a gut feeling it isn't right"
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[quote=Anonymous]You are projecting your insecurities onto the relationship. He has established you as permanent and primary to his relatives and they have responded accordingly. This is a major win for the relationship's stability. Relax about your place in his life in regards to your race. Now men are typically slow to get engaged usually because of money. It's not the ring's cost so much as the symbolism of financial security. This is his area of instability. He wonders if he can be a good provider. Even in today's society men often equate their worth in terms of employment and pay scale. Sit him down and tell him it's time to talk about your future. Do not make demands just see if your ideas and his mesh. You do not need to question his love just his timeline. Tell him you will work together to meet those financial goals. [/quote]
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