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Reply to "My bf is perfect on paper: just have a gut feeling it isn't right"
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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe they've never really been around many black people? Some small towns and suburbs are almost totally white, and a person who's never been exposed to a person of color might think, "hey, this person is different from me" until they meet you and realize, "hey, we have these things in common." If you're the first black woman your boyfriend has dated, and especially if he's always had a type that is different from you (like blondes), they might just be adjusting to you being a different type than his other GFs. so they sound like maybe they are trying to get to know you better because you are in his life? that's a good thing. Now the rest of it... what does "perfect on paper" mean to you? You guys are still pretty young; a lot of people aren't ready to get engaged at 27, especially if they don't feel financially stable. I think you may have to choose between being engaged at 27 and keeping this guy. [/quote]
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