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[quote=Anonymous]Honest answer: Yes, I did, and I found my boyfriend on it.

35, f, never married. Had tried Match and OKCupid with varying degrees of luck. Signed up for Tinder on a night out with a girlfriend, as a lark - she'd been bugging me to get on it for awhile just to play the "Tinder Game." Deactivated as I left the bar that night. Reactivated a few weeks later. Wound up on dates with 3 different guys. None even tried to hook up. All were real dates. One guy I saw only once, we weren't compatible. The other two, I dated at the same time until I chose one. The guy I didn't choose I went on 5 dates with. The one I did choose, I've been dating for a couple of months.  I did not have sex before exclusivity. They guy who is now my boyfriend also had an account at the time on EHarmony. People will look at other sites when the ones they are on aren't working.

Everyone's experiences will vary, but I found just as many men in their 30s and 40s looking for legitimate dates on Tinder as I did on the other sites. Sure, I got explicit messages, but I got them on the other sites too, and just ceased the conversation then. If you conduct yourself geared to what you want to find (e.g. casual sex, or a relationship) and don't entertain people who are obviously angling for something other than what you want, Tinder can be an option for those looking for relationships, too. [/quote]

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