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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]7:07, half your friends cheat?  Must suck to be their husbands and for you to know this goes on when you see them.[/quote]

I am 7:07 and I am a man.  And I hate to sound cold-hearted but I really don't care what my friends do.  I have no idea what their marriage looks like.  I have no idea if they have an explicit arraignment with their spouse that this is ok, that their marriage is sexless, that their wives are cheating on them.  Their cheating has zero to do with me.  Its not my issue, any more than its my issue that they don't seem to be saving enough in 529s for their kids college.[/quote]

And what I am not going to do is be such a busy-body as rat them out and be the moving force in the strain of their marriage.  I will not feel morally superior when their kids are trying to figure out what home they are supposed to sleep in tonight because its Tuesday and that means its Dad's turn although its also therapy night.  I am not condoning cheating, I will not help, cover or facilitate it.  But I will also not stick my nose where it doesn't belong from some entitled sense of superiority that will lead to nothing but more misery.[/quote]

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