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[quote=Anonymous]Two signs of my spouse's affair were an absolute loyalty to friends (suddenly those became the most important relationships in his life, and those friends could do not wrong), and a lot of commentary that I was "so judgmental about people" and "you always see things as black and white" (not just about friends, about everything). And I had always been pretty relaxed about his friends, I might say "he acts like a jackass with women" but I would never tell him to stay away from those friends. Like the PP, if these women are also friends of yours I would tell. It's really horrible to find out your spouse was having an affair and you were the last to know. I look back on some parties where basically everyone else in the room knew but me, and it's pretty devastating. I understand that those people were all in a difficult situation, but I can't think of them as my friends anymore.[/quote]
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