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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop chasing her.  [/quote]

Exactly. She's set her boundaries and you are violating them. Stop contacting her- she doesn't want it. Maybe someday she will and she'll contact you.[/quote]

The "I'm going to come if you don't object" crossed a line, IMO, because she had made it clear she wanted space and you completely disallowed her that space by forcing her to either face you or at least write back just to say no after she had already said no to all your prior requests. That's not respectful of what she's asked for. Just leave it be for awhile.[/quote]

I tend to disagree.  I think OP's sister is in pain, is blaming it on her mother and sister, is angry as hell with them, and wants to hurt them back by cutting them off.  I think she wants to be pursued because it gives her the satisfaction of "getting back" at them.  Having said that, I think her actions probably come from a place of deep pain. Whether that pain is justified or not almost doesn't matter because in OP's sister's mind it's justified and real. [/quote]

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