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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop chasing her.  [/quote]

Exactly. She's set her boundaries and you are violating them. Stop contacting her- she doesn't want it. Maybe someday she will and she'll contact you.[/quote]

The "I'm going to come if you don't object" crossed a line, IMO, because she had made it clear she wanted space and you completely disallowed her that space by forcing her to either face you or at least write back just to say no after she had already said no to all your prior requests. That's not respectful of what she's asked for. Just leave it be for awhile.[/quote]

OP here.  I understand the advice to leave her alone and will do so but you are misinterpreting my post.  She had NOT said no to my prior requests -- she just did not respond to my calls or e-mails.  I frankly was doubting whether she was even still alive and very worried about her, thought she might be suicidal, thought she might actually be dead.  I was actually checking public death records, ok?  So I finally worded the "I'm going to visit" email to force a response if I could just so I could tell if she was alive and ignoring me or not even getting my messages.  Sorry if you think that "crossed a line" but if you flat out ignore someone with no explanation they may be confused and worried.[/quote]

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