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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine has improved but it is still an issue.  I always talk to him about it too.  His angry outbursts have definitely gotten better and less frequent but he still complains about *everything*!  It's annoying.  But the angry outbursts I could not live with and I've made that clear to him through some dramatic fights.   I just will not be talked to like that/treated that way.  [/quote]

How do you deal with the complaining?[/quote]

It depends on my mood and how valid I think the complaint is.  Usually, I'm like, 'yeah, life sucks' and dismiss the topic.  He seems to get the hint.  Sometimes, I'll just let him rant.  If it's too over the top angry, I ask him to chill out.  He usually gets angrier at that but then will dial it back.  My DH has never remotely threatened violence, though. And I do not think he is depressed, though who knows.  He has gotten a ton better, which gives me hope that he will continue to mellow.  He's a control freak, his own boss and an only child, so it was a big change. [/quote]

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