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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the "new" wears off of the man because he is now her husband so she doesn't get excited about having sex with him. They simply want some strange...[/quote]

I actually think there's a lot to this.  Also, in many cases I think they wax nostalgic about ex-boyfriends and fantasize about them and boring old hubby starts looking worse and worse in comparison to the idealized version of the ex.  [/quote]

A lot of the qualities that make for the best husbands (e.g. loyalty, dependability, devotion) detract from sexual excitement. [/quote]

Sad but true.[/quote]

Yup, because those traits are boooooorrrriiiing.  Women need excitement and [b]are genetically predisposed to multiple partners[/b].[/quote]

We all are. Decades of monogamy is bullshit. [/quote]

The problem is, open marriages often have problems.  A wife is going to find willing partners just by breathing.  So there is an inherent imbalance.  Then you run into the issue that sexual performance is such an insecurity for many people that adding others to the relationship is a time bomb.

Probably the best solution is to find a couple in the same boat and swap.  That way, everyone is getting action.[/quote]

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