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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has anyone had any experience in long-term relationships with an avoidant person? What was the relationship like, how did the avoidant person break up with you and did they seem to mourn the end of the relationship or not?[/quote] The avoidant never broke up with me. He just disappeared whenever he felt uncomfortable, only to come crawling back ... I got tired of the 'dance' after 5 years, and I completely broke contact with him. Defriended him on all social media, blocked his number on my phone. I did this because I met someone I thought I could fall in love with, and I didn't want the avoidant to ruin it. I finally realized that my relationship with the avoidant made me miss out on a real healthy relationship, probably several of them. And yup, I was right about the falling in love part. If my avoidant could figure his shit out (long term depression), I would have married him in a heartbeat.[/quote]
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