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[quote=Anonymous]Our therapist didn't solve the underlying problems, but she validated both of our feelings and helped us learn how to address the issues. Example: I was telling H that he wasn't doing anywhere near enough work at home or with the kids. I didn't realize that he didn't know what I did, wasn't used to being proactive to look for what needed to be done, but just passively waited to be told. He heard from the therapist that I viewed that passive role as weak and as being subordinate, and that I didn't want to tell him what to do. It's by no means perfect now, but at least he has a better understanding of why I got so upset.[/quote]
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