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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's a better idea, skip the trip and stay home and save the money. [/quote]

How will not going be helpful?   My DC is the only grandchild in DH's family.  Honestly, we don't like Phoenix but visit out of obligation.  I would love to just stay home or only visit my family who are not so rigid and neurotic and make their kids and grandkids stay at hotels.[/quote]

OP, please read through comments again.  You've asked a question but you're not listening to the answer.  This woman lost her husband and her entire life is in flux, have some compassion. Maybe she doesn't want your "help" cleaning because she's afraid you'll throw out things that are important to her.  Would you want her going through your home independently and decide what's treasure and what's trash?  Probably not.  Just get a hotel and for God's sake, muster up some kindness in your heart.  And honestly, from your responses alone, someone could easily describe YOU as "rigid and neurotic". [/quote]

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