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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a never-been-married 40 year old woman and I've been in an affair with a 55 year old married man for 3 years. I'm happy. I love him, he loves me, sex is great, non-sex time is great. I don't want anything to change. Several of my closest women friends have told me they think I am wrong for being involved with a married guy. I say, "I'm not the one who took the vows. I'm not deceiving anyone."  Should I re-think this?[/quote]

OP, you seem very self-centered ... not surprisingly. "I'm happy, I'm not the one who took vows." I suppose that's how you got to be a 40 year old who never married and thinks nothing of having an affair with a married man.

If you could think past the end of your own little bubble, you would realize the damage this is doing, and your part in keeping it alive. Your shack-up took vows to another woman, establishing a union supported by the state and, possibly, the church. There are reasons that marriage vows are legal contracts, and are in place for the good of society. You really can't see how making that fall apart is destructive to people beyond yourself?[/quote]

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