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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband told me he didn't love me when we married but he learned to love me.  From that day forward I cut all feelings for him off. I go through the motions but have no love for him.

He knew the moment he said what he did it would be like flipping a switch. He got what he wanted. Now he feels bad about it. I don't.

I have made plans for my future. They do not include him.[/quote]

You do know don't you that this is the best case outcome for arranged marriages, which are still very prevalent in many parts of the world?  It is considered a good thing--arranged marriages are not done for love but if they are really successful the couple come to love each other.

Honestly, does it matter so much what was going on then?  Isn't the fact that he loves you in the present enough?  Aren't you better off than someone whose DH loved them when they wed but no longer does?  Or is there something else going on like now you suspect he married you for your money, which I admit would be rather a downer.[/quote]

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