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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  But there are always people who would rather continue on in ignorant bliss.  YMMV. [/quote]

I don't think it has to be seen as wanting ignorant bliss, more that you can choose the amount of importance you place on certain things.  Catty BS isn't worth the time.

If you're good with yourself and your life, who cares what miserable people have to say behind your back?[/quote]

No.  I'm talking about the people who are questioning why anyone would TELL OP what her MIL is saying.  I'm saying she deserves to know and her BIL and SIL should tell her if they care about her.  Once she has the info she can decide what to do with it and whether or not to give it no importance in her life.  But I think the BIL and SIL are certainly right to tell her, while others on this board think they are just out to make trouble.

I can feel good about my family and my behavior, but if there is a big lie tied up in that I'd be grateful for someone to tell me about it.  I don't need to interpret them telling me as "trying to make trouble" for me, but even if they are trying to rain on my parade, I don't care.  I'd want to know.  Feeling good about a life that is very different from what you think it is essentially IS living in ignorant bliss.  [/quote]

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