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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, another thing that was helpful for me - accepting that you will have regrets and things you missed out on either way. If you have kids, there will be times you feel resentment or regrets over difficult things happening, no sleep, not feeling bonded, bad decisions they make, whatever. If you don't have kids, there may be holidays or phases of life where you wonder "What if?," so on. For me, that was freeing, because I didn't have to figure out which decision would leave me with no regrets or bad feelings - it was to figure out which choice would leave me with the regrets/questions that I felt more comfortable with in my heart of hearts. [/quote]
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