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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every person that I know that didn't want to get married, but wanted to be together forever, didn't really want to be together forever. They were there for now because something better hadn't come by yet.

He didn't think you were the right girl to spend forever with. AND he disrespected you  and you time enough to waste it while he waited for something better to come along.

So cry, cry big fat tears of anger, fear, hurt. Cry until  you cant cry any more. Then cry some more. At that point you will realize, you are still alive. The pain didn't kill you. You made it through the worst and it can only go up from here.

Also, delete him from everything--phone, FB, Linkedin, Instagram, Twitter, email...everything. It will hurt, but it will be like a band-aid, quick and fast is better than long and drawn out. Last thing you need is a way to contact him at 2am when you are at your lowest. If he wants to contact you, he knows how.

I didn't meet DH until I was 38. I had so many broken hearts before him. And I thank God every day for every one of them. My life with all the other would have been horrible compared to what I have now. (I thought they were good, but I had no idea what good was until I met DH).  I would go through every one of them again, if it meant I would end up with DH.

You will get through this, and you will be stronger and better for it. And when you look back you will totally realize how your SO just wasn't the right guy for you. 
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I like this advice. Purge him from your life. Stop. Texting. Him.[/quote]

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