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[quote=Anonymous]Op here...I have never been able to stand my FIL.  He has never been nice to me before our DC was born.  When DH and I were dating, I was not allowed at their house, not allowed to call their son when he was living with them, and he has criticized me for not doing things for them (e.g. clean their house).  During my pregnancy, DH did not like the way he treated us and the potential for him to emotionally abuse our DC.  As such, he forbade my FIL from coming over. FIL tormented MIL and DH felt terrible. I asked my husband to relent to make my MIL and DH feel better.  FIL said he will be on his best behavior in front of DC.  FIL's attitude improved after DC's birth but the real estate deal turned things back to how it was.  He sees the money he is providing as a leverage over us.  However, we never asked for the money or this arrangement. If we weren't so blindsighted by the land becoming available and the desire to make MIL happy, we would not have agreed in the beginning.[/quote]

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