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[quote=Anonymous]I find it hard to imagine that you did not seriously think long and hard about the offer if you truly cannot tolerate your FIL. Is it that you never accepted the offer but by purchasing land they mistook that as an acquiescence on your part? Did you at any time accept money from the IL's? If no then you are in the clear. They certainly cannot protest if they still have all their money to build a house for themselves. What they are unhappy about is that their old age is not secured. They now know beyond a doubt that you and your husband will not be there to care for them. As unpleasant as your FIL is it could be they deserve this but still it must also be a heartbreak. Trying to maneuver you into caring might be a dirty tactic or it might have been an effort at a mutually beneficial situation. There is certainly no way forward now except separately. [/quote]
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