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[quote=Anonymous]No no no no no. You can't let your DH'a dysfunctional guilt complex endanger your home and your child. Verbal abuse is DANGEROUS. Do you want your toddler's brain flooded with stress hormones when he sees his father verbally abused on a daily basis?!?! What are you smoking? You can't expect your husband to be your backbone on this. He comes from an abusive home and is still clearly damaged by it. YOu have to be the one to protect your family. You will never, never feel truly at home in this house with your FIl there every day. Never. I grew up in a verbally abusive home and I know. dh will never please his father but never stop wanting his approval. You cannot let that endanger your family. Put your foot down and take the backlash. I promise this short term hell will be worth the long term gain in peace and sanity!![/quote]
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