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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Offer to make her a sandwich and help pack a suitcase. She wants to run away from her problems, from her fear. [/quote] This sounds like a very bad idea to me. She's not 13, she's 6![/quote] Actually, it's worse when it's 13. The worst thing to do is offer to pack her bag and make her food for the trip (teen). I was a nanny for a 12-13 girl that threatened to run away from her dad. She had already run away from her mom and the police brought her back that evening. She and I sat down for a long talk about the realities of teen girls on the street (rape, prostitution, no school, no food, no shelter, no way to get home, etc.). I've been raped twice, so we talked explicitly about what it was like, how she would deal with it. She hadn't thought it through and she hadn't had anyone willing to sit her down and give her the cold, hard facts. Once she realized, she dropped it. Of course she still had other issues, but anything else can be dealt with, you have no chance to deal with anything if the kid runs away.[/quote]
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