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[quote=Anonymous]I've seen this outlook/approach a lot on DCUM. In response to any issue that may come up regarding ILs, people say that DH should be the one to talk to them. I've never really understood this. Why is that? In any other circumstance where there is an "issue" that affects my family, I am comfortable dealing directly with the other person. This includes neighbors, teachers, colleagues, service providers, etc. Why should I not feel the same way, or even moreso, with inlaws who are family? Of course, I wouldn't want my husband to be a coward, and I would want him to have my back. But I don't see why he should always be the mouthpiece to his family. We are all adults...[/quote]
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