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[quote=Anonymous]Considering that your mother offered to finance this trip, at least that takes any financial issues out of the equation.

So now basically your hubby will be mad that you are using your vacation time to be w/your BFF vs. him + the kids.

If you did this every summer, I would see why he would be upset. But it sounds like this is a unique opportunity to do something fun and different and you have every right to be able to go.

Your hunch is correct, your husband most likely does not want to be saddled w/caring for the kids for 8 days straight. Oh well. Tough, I say. They are his kids too and he should care for them as much as I am pretty sure you do.

Honestly, if you have to decline this vacation due to your husband not "allowing" you to go, I promise you that you will always resent him for not letting you go. Your negative feelings will build up inside until one day the anger and bitterness will emerge after something minor occurs.

I say, TELL do not ASK your husband you are going and have a great time. :)[/quote]

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