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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP says:  No I'm a professional woman.  I just don't know what to make of it and wanted an outside view of this letter.  It was sent to me in an email.  I think it's, at the very least strange, vague, unsupported, and off the wall.  It doesn't inspire warm fuzzies or fond memories.  It's like he's trying too hard.  It's not believable to me, in that I don't see sincere emotion or feelings in it. The writer seems to want to try to capture passion, which is absent.  Maybe manipulative?????  I don't know.

To some of the other questions:

I don't think he's suicidal.

Our daughter died of Cystic Fibrosis.  It was the most painful day of being alive.  I dread Mother's Day.  In some ways, maybe this was meant to acknowledge that.

I do think he has a mental disorder.  Seriously.  I think he's on the antisocial PD spectrum, but unless you live it, no one believes you. He's got a bunch of groupies that think he walks on water.

Maybe that helps with context.

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8:28 here.  I posted before seeing this post of yours.  It's funny how I didn't need any more info beyond the letter to know that it was written by a highly manipulative person with a serious personality disorder.  When you deal with enough people like this, you start to notice how they all sound alike.  My father, who has confirmed bipolar disorder and narcissistic personality disorder with strong antisocial features, used to write letters exactly like this whenever one of his playthings--kid or wife or mistress--was in danger of leaving him.  People like that do not really care about you and can't be bothered to pretend.  They think you are stupid (after all, you have put up with them this long), however, so they fill a letter with enough empty platitudes and implication to let you lead yourself on and read some love into cold words, if you are desperate enough to do so.[/quote]

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